OP: If you think finding a gay guy with whom to have sex is difficult, finding a straight guy for gay sex is much, much harder.Not to say that it can't happen, but chances are rather remote.But don't count on straight men for your sexual outlet. If you were, then would not want to hide the fact of who you have sex with.
He thought it was a great challenge and that the fact that he could entice a straight man was a tribute to his sexual prowess.
The reality was that these were either gay or bi men.
Don't let DL warp the way you think of the possibilities.
The overwhelming majority of straight guys do not have gay sex even if they're more accepting of gays in society nowadays.
Straight guys are looking for straight women, and the chances of you sucking the rare straight guy's dick when the guy is drunk, clueless or unsuspecting is remote--and even more frustrating than the inability to find a gay guy. Force yourself out occasionally to a gay bar, gay social club, gay websites, etc.
You will find someone eventually or at least now and then.
These days, most people want someone equally experienced.
You can go for "the hunt" on hot out of your league gay guys too.
They were masculine and in macho professions like construction, truck drivers and the like. He was much older than I was and from a different time.